Dating advice for thirty somethings sample about yourself dating

12 Mar

For the immediate/foreseeable future: You will go to counseling once a week for a period of 6 weeks (however, if your counselor feels that you should be going more, then you will), and I will go to counseling individually as well.

We will go to one initial session together, then you will have your 6 sessions by yourself, then we will meet the counselor together again after your 6 sessions.

I just happened to be on the computer in the home that he owns in the US (he was back living in his home country at this point – I was to join him in 6 months.

He left early to start his new job, the original reason to move back).

He has since admitted that he has a problem and broke down in tears saying that he is so torn inside and feels that he has a “Bad” self and a “good” self – but doesn’t know what the problem is and has agreed very willingly to seek treatment and help right away. I have attached that document, if you would like to see it. Every bone in my body is telling me to divorce and never look back.

If after 6 weeks, I feel the same way I do now and that I do not see ANY hope that you and I can go on in a marriage that is built on trust, respect and dignity, I will move out and initiate a divorce. You will sleep in a separate room until I feel that it is right to sleep in a room together – this can be months.

The reason that I believe him is that he agreed to all of my boundaries and has even signed the document.

I told him that I will keep this document in a safe place. If you do read this, thank you so much for listening (or reading? You have completely lost my trust and we have to start from scratch, basically.

If I even suspect that you are doing something shady, then I will move out and initiate a divorce.

If you truly believe that this marriage is the most important thing in your life, then you will think about the repercussions of all your actions to the marriage.