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24 Nov

Minutes after we’ve sat down, a guy and another woman sit by us started to engage in causal conversation (names, occupations, other small talk).The conversation started to lull a bit, so I began to scope the increasingly populated room to check out the new crowd.The media has portrayed us (African American women) in a light slightly south of positive and there’s a lot of re-education that must take place: Yes, I enjoy water sports. Yes, I share the ability to get angry like everyone else, however, an ‘angry Black woman’ I am not.Anticipating questions that seem obvious to you helps offset awkward moments.Win.” So I slip on a cute summer date dress (something that’s chic enough to wear to win, but can easily convert into a casually flirty look for after work).Lipstick poppin’, hair in check, I am feeling–and looking–fierce (if I must say so myself).Happy to finally talk to someone else, but disappointed that it was a balding, middle-aged man, I talked for approximately 12 minutes about old TV shows (I don’t remember how we got on that subject) before I got bored again and cut it short (while my prospects were looking more and more dim, I still felt the need to not be bound this person–who I wasn’t even interested in).

There’s usually a period of curiosity, to be fair, that goes both ways. Please put your hand down, I’m not going to high-five/fist pound you with every witty observance either of us makes.

I swear, every time I embark on a new dating situation, I get an adventure. When I first heard about this particular one, I thought “How cute, and it’s at a rooftop bar.

I recently attended one of those events that dating sites host in order to give singles matches a chance to get offline and meet each other in person.

There was even one Asian woman who had a circle of not one, not two, not three, but FOUR guys surrounding her, eager to get even a little bit of her attention. And that’s THREE (possibly black) women who don’t stand a chance in this kind of scene.

I know dating isn’t a competition or a numbers game, and I have absolutely no qualms about women of other races or interracial dating whatsoever (I was checking out the men there.