Does race matter when dating

19 Aug

- Rick, Staten Island, NY I had a bunch of phone numbers from girls I'd met over the years but never dated, including a few I barely knew whose names were in my phone book like "Amanda Likes Elephants" and "Caroline Very Fine" (see I already had my own system for naming 'em heh).So I figured heck, let's see [if] this guy has an advice on how to pull these girls back from out of nowhere.One of them thought I was charming enough (with the stuff you taught me - if only she knew!) that she wanted to see me that night, and I had a date lined up within an hour! Thanks for putting together such a killer resource.

And I've got to be honest with you - I didn't just pop out of my mother's womb as a text messaging samurai. For the last five years, Las Vegas has been my home base, and I've traveled around the world, living everywhere from New York to New Zealand. I've spent my time as a bartender, as a personal trainer, as a writer...but my career never mattered as much to me, because what I really want in life is to see the world and spend my time with awesome friends and beautiful women.What fun is life if you can't share it with someone whose smile warms your heart and whose touch turns you on?There's simply no one who knows this stuff better, and can teach it better than I do. They come to me when there's a girl whose number they worked hard for, and they need to get the texts right. I would send messages that were way too challenging - and when I wouldn't hear back from the girls, I told myself that it was because they were "just being bitchy hot girls" who liked shooting down guys like me.I've won numerous Awards for my programs (more on that in a bit) Maybe you've even heard me on Sirius Radio and in other major media... If she gave you her number, then she's giving it out to other guys too. She can wait for the texts and calls to roll in, consider them all, and take as much time as she wants to respond. The hotter the girl is, the more exponentially difficult it's gonna be to compete. A girl who is so-so might give her number out to 3 or 4 guys. A girl who is solidly above average might give her number out to 8 to 10 guys. There are about 17 to 24 guys who are actively texting her today - or on any given day, for that matter. But before you share in my anger, ask yourself - wouldn't you do the same if you were a girl?