Men not dating anymore

16 Jul

No longer are the times where a man calls his woman and lets her know he made reservations for Friday night, so be sure to wear her best dress. It’s both the mens and womens fault, with nobody to blame but ourselves; but it sure is a bummer, isn’t it?

Everything happens on the same day and it’s usually not romantic.

One, that younger women are no longer interested in dating men who are even just slightly (3-5 years) older than them and sometimes want to date men 5-10 years younger then them. Alas, the women with whom he wants to get serious are 27-34.

Two, women seem to be content in the fact that they are independent and self-sufficient and have a career, family and friends that fulfills them and don’t seem to be interested in truly finding a relationship. This gives men time to court, fall in love, travel together, move in, get engaged, and enjoy a few years of childless marriage before starting a family.

10 Do Not Make Dating Plans Men simply do not plan dates anymore.

The typical man is more likely to text their potential girlfriend that morning or afternoon, asking them if they’re free to ‘hang out’.

I find the latter hard to believe, but find this mantra in every profile of every professional woman online. What you’re missing is that what you want has absolutely no relation to what women want. The problem is that many women from 27-34 are independent professionals just like their male peers.

Any advice on how to navigate these new paradigms in the dating world? And to directly address your email, I have to divide my response into two different parts: 1) What You’re Getting Right and 2) What You’re Missing. We’ve addressed this before, from an older man who couldn’t possibly fathom why a younger woman wouldn’t want to be with him. We can complain that the opposite sex is unrealistic and passing up great opportunities – and we’d be right – but it doesn’t change that people want what they want. They, too, have a lot of dating options, are busy building their careers, and don’t have a clear urgency to settle down. Theoretically, this is when want to have time before becoming dads.

But imagine how amazing it would feel to get a special phone call from your potential man.

I have tried a combination of online dating, speed dating, professional singles events, volunteering, happy hours etc. I thought that online dating would be great since you are essentially pre-screening people for dates.

I have found that I get no responses from any women online and the only women who respond to my ad are usually much older and don’t meet any of my criteria outlined in my profile.

In this day and age, however, a man can simply hop onto Facebook or some other form of social media and ‘hit you up’ that way. Men don’t act like gentlemen anymore for the simple reason that women don’t act like women anymore. In all honesty, if everyone acted the way they used to, then men would continue to be Chivalrous; but what’s the point nowadays?

There is really no ‘going after’ a woman or pursuing her in any way, shape, or form. 5 Do Not Offer Real Compliments Unfortunately men don’t offer up real, genuine compliments any more; it is usually something rather basic like ‘you look sexy tonight’.